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12 Jun 05 (an Asian Man) :
So I started reading "How to Date
a White Woman: a Pratical Guide for Asian Men" by Adam
Quan. It's actually more informative then I thought it was
going to be. A lot of real stats and good tips...
And, after examining myself by the book's examples, I am
far more westernized than most Asian men, which apparently
gives me better advantage in the realm of dating.
.... By reading this book, I feel like I am taking a CES on Asians
in a western society. ...
This book ... it has given me a different
perspective about me, an Asian man, in this ...society.
There are certain things that I consider to be virtues and
good behaviors from my cultural upbringing that does not
work in this society. In many ways, these habits make me
appear as "not being comfortable with myself." But this
really is a cultural misunderstanding --- and yes, even
with me, a fairly westernized Asian. ...... It has
also given me to view human nature in a different way, in
particularly the different sexes from evolution's point of
view. It's quite interesting. Let me just leave it at
that.
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